Barbara, I have Rideout ancestors at Mt. Wollaston and did get wonderful photos all the time living in California. Here is how you do it.
First contact the cemetery City of Quincy, Cemetery Department, 20 Sea St. Quincy MA 02169 Give them all the necessary information to find the site such as your fathers complete name with birth and death dates. They will send you a layout of the cemetery showing the exact spot of the grave. Do send a stamped self addressed return envelope.
Once you have this information you should contact RAOGK members of this group volunteer to take photos and will send them usually free.http://www.raogk.org/
Please contact me if you have any other questions.
Herbert A Rideout