I was wondering if your grandmother Winifred Stanton had a brother or uncle named Thomas Stanton born 1832 in Ireland? I ask because Thomas Stanton married Catherine O'malley in LaSalle IL. When Thomas and Catherine move to Newton Iowa they become God parents to O'Rourke children. I haven't been able to make a connection between the O'Rourkes or the Stantons. If you have any information I would love to hear it.