I have got to solve this before I go insane!!
I have a Joseph Lanning (b. abt 1813) married to a lady named Jane. I strongly bellieve her name was Jane Stroud (b. about 1809 in NJ); however I cannot prove it.
Joseph and Jane had a daughter, Marcy Lanning, who married Charles Titus.
I further believe that she is a daughter of Samuel Stroud. I know for fact that Samuel had a son named Joseph P Stroud, and another named Joseph. Perhaps a daughter named Elizabeth.
All the above took place in Steuben County, NY
Any help greatly appreciated.