OKay, I got new information:
"Dow" Stapleton, possibly b.1814 in Cairo, IL d. in Milliga, Okaloosa Co., FL. m. Millie (Mary?) Fowler or AL or FL.
Children: Joseph William b. 1839-45, Milligan, FL;
Drew Ella b.1840?; Elizabeth b. 1842?; Emily; Permelia (Pamelia or Pamela); Narcissie. Other than Joseph William, no male names but Dow was supposed to have 10 children in all.
Joseph William m. Martha Lawrence b. 1842 ,AL or FL?
Children: Moriah (Marie/Mary) Elizabeth b. 5 Sep 1886 m. 1900/05 Milton Davis (Jr?) GA; Jonathan (John) Robert and Wade supposedly twins; Missouri Frances (f). Joseph William served during the CW, probably for CSA and brothers (unknown) served the Union.
Moriah and Milton had my grandmother Gladys Drews Ella Davis in Opp, AL, b. 1909. Other children born in AL and FL and Moriah m. Thomas Paul some time after 1920 and d. in Waynesboro, MS 1974.
If any of this fits with anything you have please HELP!