Interesting sequence for Daniel and Martha's children Ada, Lewis and Bessie (Betsy):
1876 - Martha Dies
1880 census - Ada (10), Betsy (7) and Lewis (5) Ford are living with William and Melisse (sic) Jordan and their kids in Allen Township, Union County
1890 census - Ada is dead, Betsy has been married to Daniel J Monroe for a year, Lewis is the servant of Charity and Agness Benedict (I'm guessing, by their ages, sisters of Mordecai J Benedict, father of Grace Melora Benedict who was at that time married to Francis E. Howell)
1907 - Lewis marries Grace Melora Benedict
Also noted that in 1880 Daniel's household was he and Alice, married a year, and in 1900 their household included Burchard (sic), Celia and Earl.
So the kids from Daniel's two marriages knew each other, but did not grow up in the same household.