The dates I have for the Cole Family:
Benoni Cole, born 31 Mar 1795 Vermont (1825 NY State census); died June 1870 LaFargeville, NY.
Hannah Kenyon Cole, born 25 Mar 1802 R.I., died 1 May 1855
bur. Tanners Corner,Jefferson Co, NY.
Simeon Barber Cole, b. 30 May 1819, d. 7 Feb 1862
md. Adelia M. Bassett b.4 Nov 1823 d, 28 Nov 1898
Adelia (which doesn't seem right as Adelia isn't listed in the 1850 census with him. Needs more research.
That census lists Simeon living with Sarah Ann (31) and Benoni (57), Hannah (49) Moses (13) Rhoda(11).
Gloria Anstead Hillier