In the 1881 census (online at the IGI) Priscilla is recorded under REFFEL (unmarried) at CROYDEN, Surrey servant at the George THUMPER household, 124 Wadden New Rd.
Priscilla nee BOWLER was daughter of Charles Bowler b. 1826 LANGLEY, Buckinghamshire and Ann POYNTERb. 1825, WINFIELD, Berkshire. Priscilla was born on 21.3.1852 at COLNBROOK, Buckinghamshire. She was married to Raymond Reffell in September 1873.He is recorded in the 1881 census in Kent as unmarried. Ann E(lizabeth) REFFELL is their daughter. Priscilla was sister to Harriet BOWLER who was born in COLNBROOK, 1857.