I have no James Benjamin on my family tree. I have the IGI records for Stoutes printed out here at home. I found a Benjamin James Stoute christened on 6 July 1841 in Christ Church. He seemed to have been the son of Samuel James Stoute who apparently married a Mary Isabella Price, but I can find no information on their marriage. I am sorry I cannot help you further.
Patsy Carrington (Nee Stoute).