You are still around - great.
Just discovered your other thread, link here:http://www.dis-danmark.dk/forum/read.php?11,213678,213685
The online tree I posted includes records of Caroline Luise Bernberg and spouse Johan Christian Siemsen at Eckernförde, Sydslesvig. Johan Christian is not with his family in 1860 census, and said to be working there.
This DIS-Danmark discussion mentions that there are 26 Siemsens in Kappeln in 1803. Kappeln was given as Caroline's birthplace. (going by memory, notes not here) I mention this only because the person who asked the question might have done more genealogy related to your family:http://www.dis-danmark.dk/forum/read.php?1,14052,15153#msg-1...
More about Caroline and her birth family in this amazing post:
"Jeg vil prøve at samle alt Bernberg vedr DK - søger derfor forfædre og efterkommere til:
Johan Bernberg f. ca 1779 Karby - gift Louise/Lovise Kock
Johan Kristian Bernberg f 5.3.1821 Karby gift Anne Marie Sterup
Karl Hartvig Bernberg f ca 1823 Karby gift Ane Dorthea Jensen f 28.4.1833 Brørup
Jørgen Henrik Bernberg f ca 1827 Karby gift Kirstine Jepsen f ca 1832 Bramming
Caroline Bernberg f ca 1833 Karby gift Johan Christian Siem
Har boet Tirslund, Føvling sogn og Lintrup, Holsted sogn - Ribe amt"
This online tree by a cousin of yours tells about the family of Louise Kirstine Siem,
sister of your Ane Marie Siem:
Hans Nikolai Østergaard, born 29 feb 1856 in Vodder sogn, died 12 dec 1911 in Aatte mark. He married Louise Kirstine Bernberg, married 29 okt 1886 in Holsted Kirke.
1. Anders Mikkelsen Østergaard born 12 okt 1886, died 27 jun 1976.
2. Anna Marie Østergaard born 14 aug 1889, died 1984.