There appears to have been two by that name so a bit more info would help.
Have you searched yourself here at the BDM's on Ancestry or the Electoral Rolls??
If you google Bendigo Cemetery you will the one that died 1985
HOLLAND, RUPERT FARRANT
Date of Death: not available
Date of Burial: 12/09/1985
Interment Number: 047745
Section: MON G2
Grave Number: 45804