1850 Census of Highland County, Virginia published by [Mrs. Emma Robertson Matheny, Genealogist, pg. 6 enumeration taken the 17th day of July 1850
May, Rachel 51 f b: Pendleton Co.
Reuben A. 18 m b: Bath Co.
Denny C. 9 f b: Bath Co. [note this child is listed as a female]
Grimes, Margaret J. 10 f b: Pocahontas Co.
This family is not listed in the Highland Co. 1860 census by Holly Cochran
Note: Margaret J. Grimes and Reuben A. May married 12/26/1857 and he died 1859-1860
May, Abraham 27 m b: Bath Co.
Margaret J. 34 f b: Pocahontas Co.
Asberry Wilson 7/12 m b: Highland Co.
Highland County, Virginia 1860 Census and Marriages 1853-1860 transcribed and annotated by Holly Wanless Cochran, pg. 27
James May 24 m farmer, R=100
Matilda [sister] 21 f housekeeper
Margaret J. May [wid] housekeeper, P=102 [I have a feeling this is the same Margaret J. listed in 1850 as Margaret J. Grimes widow of Reuben May]
Samuel L. [child] 1 m
pg. 28, census# 325-307
Abraham May 33 m farmer, R=100, P=167
Margaret J. [wife] f housekeeper
Asbury W. 10 m
Nancy E. 8 f