From your user name I would say that you are John and yes we are cousins. You would be my second cousin, Leona is my 1st cousin 1x removed and your grandfather Ray is my Great or Grand Uncle (depending how you refer to it).
As a kid I lived in Milford, Utah and Ramona and her family, husband Charles Smith, lived in back of a kid that I played with, George McCully. My mother and I were living with my grandparents across the street from George and his family. Almost every morning I would get up, run across the street to George's house and then the two of us would run out the back of his house to Ramona’s house to get Robert, her son and off the three of us would go. Over the years I have lost contact with both George and Robert, not sure but I think that Robert passed away.
Ramona and my mom, Donna Baudino Craw, were 1st cousins; Grandma, Pearl Bentley Baudino was Ramona’s aunt. I remember seeing Uncle Ray, but as I was only about 4 or so that is all I do remember, just seeing him and remembering that I like him a lot.
If you have access to ancestry.com you can find my tree on it, Craw – Baudino.
At one time I did not live to far from you. I served on 5 different submarines, three of which were homeported at the Sub Base in Groton, Connecticut. I had a home in Gales Ferry just 7 miles west of Foxwoods and 7 miles east of the Mohegan Sun. Not sure if you know about them, but they are two of the largest casino in the world.
If you would like to email me my address is dcraw1 at tampabay.rr.com