Betty Jane, thanks for sending that information, but I'm afraid it is not for my Thomas Broyles. The difficulty is that there is another Thomas Broyles out there with close dates.
Someone else sent me the picture of that headstone, and I also noticed the wife's name didn't match up. My Thomas's first wife was named Mary, and his second wife was Elizabeth (nicknamed Betty).
The headstone photo is at http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/11705515/person/-402810728/ph...
if anyone is interested in that other Thomas Broyles.
See...this is why it's been so frustrating to try and locate his burial place. I've often wondered if he was just buried on the family property...although that obit in the Confederate Veteran indicates otherwise. Finding that location, "Lebanon", though is the trick.