Ed, You mentioned Mrs. Arthur Van Dyke (Elizabeth MacDonald), they had a daughter Mable (Mary) Van Dyke, evidently she is my Grandmother. Mable had many marriages, one of whom was to Dayton F. Trimper whom she married in 1903 Utica.
Mable had a daughter Elizabeth Anne Trimper and a son Frederick, who spent most of their lives in orphanges. I believe Frederick is my birth father.
Around 1924 Utica, Frederick changed his name to Alfred Kelly and lived at 1326 Lincoln Ave.
When I had my DNA done, I became aware of a cousin George Heburn. (That name has 3 generations of the same name).
Since I am an orphan, I would love to hear from you, a birth relative).