Since Charity Carpenter married Owen Minyard in 1853, you would have to look at the 1850 census to try to find her with her parents. Later census records shows that she was born in Mississippi. I've looked at plenty of 1850 census records and I have not been able to identify her on any of them. There are no Carpenters listed as buried in Enon Cemetery who are old enough to be her parents. The same holds true for Owen's second wife, Melinda Carpenter.