Hi Shelley - I had almost forgotten about you. I'm sorry to hear that your father doesn't speak to his daughters. How sad. I've made a bit of progress on the family tree over the last year or so. But I've gone about as far as I can go for now and haven't been doing too much lately. I am always interested in learning more about the earlier families. In particular, your dad had an Aunt Mary - (his father's older sister from John Sr.'s first marriage.) I've never found out if she married and what her married name was. But, chances are your dad may have never heard of her. So that remains one of the family mysteries yet to be solved. Good luck with your visit. I'm on Facebook under Joy Stellmach Bond.