Paula! Calvin was a 2nd cousin, Carroll was a 3rd cousin. Calvin's father William was a 1st cousin, and his father John was a great grand uncle! This makes your husband a 4th cousin. Hi cuz!! THis is a very elusive family for me once I get back to John's father Abraham. From Abraham back is conjecture on my part. THe dates a localities seem to fit but I cannot find any documentation of Abraham's lineage.
Would love to hear more about your familyconnections to Southard if you are willing to share. BDM for Calvin, wife, children, marriages, etc. Would love to hear back from you.
Thanks and Hello!