I made a typo-So Nary should be Mary. I thought most would understand that, but thank you for pointing it out.
I have searched the 1850, 1860, 1870, found her in the 1880. I have searched the marriage records, death records 1852-1953. I have looked for more than 8 years. I have searched throughout the US during the time frames. I have used Lindsay, Lindsay, Linsey.
My hope was that someone out there would have her in a family tree and share. I posted on Edmonson Co, KY where many "Lindsey" posts are because her home was in Warren in 1880.
Shame on you for being so rude.