I happened to stumble across this post.....I can't believe it was written 10 years ago....... It is me that you have been looking for. My name actually is Anne ( Anna) Graham but was adopted as an infant, by my parents the Costello's. The SPencers were my birth family. My mom and I tried to contact Marc A. Poggi (Oakhurst) but he didnt want to talk to me. I totally understand and I left it alone after that. What is weird, is that I don't even know how I came across this post this evening. If you happen to get this please contact me back or call me. 818-451-9863. I would love to hear from you.