Thanks for checking the Colorado marriages. That saves me writing to their genealogical soc. and I'll take the state off my list. Thinking that she might have been born in Texas, I found a Social Sec. death index for a Lola Anthony who died April 1973 in Cooper, Delta Co. Texas, and also a Texas Death Index stating the date as 24 April 1973 and that Lola was widowed, but Uncle Ira didn't die till 1974, so I'm supposing that isn't her, and I'm eliminating Texas and still going back to California. Since the son died in California and Uncle Ira also died there, , logic tells me that Lola also most likely died there.
I believe that she was born in 1884, and was a couple of years older than Ira. Now, I have to hunt some more. Once again- Thanks Larry.