I see from your posts on other boards that a lot of your research is concentrated in Perth, NJ. Here is an article on the state archives and other resources for that area:http://familytreemagazine.com/article/New-Jersey-records-det...
You have been given a plethora of information. You really need to respond so the board knows if you are utilizing the information and if we can move forward. The information that has been suggested should eventually lead you back to the 'old country' and more advice can be given. Please let us know if you have received these msgs.
Also check familysearch.org - particularly with the maiden name.