Is this your Bartly with his family on the 1940 US census ?
Skaneateles, Onondaga, New York
Bartley J Coleman 68
Ella W Coleman 60
Francis Coleman 31
Dorothy Coleman 21
Bartley born Ireland, his wife and children born New York.
If it's correct, then gives an estimated year of birth for Bartholomew of about 1872, although one other returns give his year of birth as abt 1874.
Do you know ages/years of birth for the other two, are these three men brothers ?
p.s. he seems to be listed with a Hackett family on the 1900 census return, and single at the time... so looks like the marriage took place later than 1900. Looks like Bartholomew died in 1953, as there's a FindAGrave reference to that name for Saint Mary's Cemetery