Well, it's Tuesday again and time for a pre-Halloween Ancestry Quick Tip
Jamboree! This week, we've gathered a collection of cemetery tips.
Thanks to everyone for sharing their tips! If you have a tip you would like
to share with other researchers, you can send it to: editor@ancestry-inc.com
Enjoy your day!
Juliana
Cemetery Warnings
There are certain times of the year when you should be especially cautious
while at a cemetery. Mother's Day, Memorial Day, Father's Day and other holidays
see an increase in visitors to the cemetery. Thieves know this, too. This makes
cemetery visitors an appealing target for theft. Whenever you visit the cemetery,
it is a good idea to follow some common sense safety precautions:
--- Don't leave your purse or other valuables in your car.
--- If possible, go with a group.
--- Go during the daylight hours.
--- If you have a cell phone, it is also a good idea to bring it with you so
that you can call for help if necessary.
Another safety precaution should be added to your list. I'm from Montreal (http://www.cimetierenddn.org)
were we have a very large cemetery on top of the Mount Royal, along with a park.
Imagine the traffic on days like Mother's Day and Father's Day. These are the
days of the year when most car accidents occur in the city.
Driving into a cemetery with curvy and winding roads can also be tricky because
tall monuments can block the view of an oncoming car or pedestrian. Additional
cars and pedestrians are added as well because it is close to the public park
and it is a bird sanctuary.
I hope this additional information can be helpful to Ancestry members. Thanks
for your weekly letter. I do appreciate receiving it.
Réginald Godin
Chargé de projets / Project Coordinator
CHAMBRE DE COMMERCE DU MONTRÉAL MÉTROPOLITAIN
Leave No Stone Unturned
. . . I don't believe I am the only one new to genealogy to overlook an old
cemetery. My father's family members are all buried in a huge cemetery in Wisconsin.
I could not find my great-great-grandparents there, and no relatives knew where
else they could be buried. So, I began visiting every site I could find in Wisconsin.
The other day, I found a site which listed cemeteries in that state. It turns
out I had passed by this old cemetery every time I drove to the library or went
to my cousin's house. If I had been more experienced I would have known to have
a look at this old cemetery that is right in town. My great-great-grandparents
were close by all this time. In October, I will be driving to Wisconsin to take
pictures of their stones.
Lou
Commonwealth War Graves Commission
If you had a relative who served in one of the Commonwealth forces who died
in World War I or World War II, there is an amazing site at: www.cwgc.org/
The Debt of Honour page tells what they have: "This Register provides personal
and service details and places of commemoration for the 1.7 million members
of the Commonwealth forces who died in the First or Second World Wars. (A record
of some sixty thousand civilian casualties of the Second World War is provided
without details of burial location.) The cemeteries and memorials where these
names are commemorated, in perpetuity, are located in around one hundred and
fifty countries. This database makes it possible to identify the exact location,
by cemetery plot or memorial panel, where any given name is commemorated."
These places of commemoration are maintained by the Commonwealth War Graves
Commission. My mother knew that her uncle had died in World War II, but that
was all she knew. One quick search netted the following information: "WILLIAM
HENRY MOZLEY, Private, 4868464, 2/5th Bn., Leicestershire Regiment, who died
on Wednesday, 13th October 1943. Age 22. Additional Information: Son of William
and A. Mozley. Commemorative Information Memorial: CASSINO MEMORIAL, Italy Grave
Reference/Panel Number:Panel 6."
It then proceeds to give us very explicit directions to the Memorial site right
down to where panel 6 is. There is a button at the bottom of the page that allows
you to print off a Record of Commendation that lists the information on the
honoured dead, which will allow us to have a paper record of the information.
This is an amazing project that touched me deeply, and is very easy to get results
with, all I knew was his name and that he died in WWII and luckily Mozley is
not a common name. If it had been the Brown side I might have required more
information, but it would be well worth it.
Caroline W. Brown
Divine Guidance in Cemeteries
I have been in many "new-to-me" cemeteries which look enormous. I drive in if
it a large cemetery or walk in if it is small one and silently say, "Ok, lead
me to your grave." I can't tell you how many times it has worked for me! (Except
on my Irish branch. It seems that the Irish are as secret about their grave
sites in death as they are about sharing their family stories when alive . .
. at least in my family!
Bergetta Monroe Burnsville, MN
GPSing Too Hard to Find Cemeteries
Our son has been a GPS (Global Positioning System) enthusiast and has been "geocaching"
for the past few months. Geocaching is looking for hidden treasures that have
previously been deposited in hard-to-find locations by someone else. They give
the coordinates and if one is lucky they can locate something, take something
from the cache, and put something in place of what they have taken. Knowing
my interest in genealogy, our son said he would like for me to get the GPS coordinates
for some hard-to-find cemeteries where our progenitors have been buried. We're
going to Maine this summer and I will be able to collect this information so
that others will be able to find our relatives without having to do it the hard
way. Some of the cemeteries are back in the woods without any clue to their
location. Since my husband is also a GPS fanatic, he will be much more willing
to help me locate cemeteries when we make our pilgrimage to Maine. I think this
is a terrific suggestion.
Charlotte Sadler
Check Out Surrounding Graves
I just found out that my father, whom I thought had shared everything he
knew, knew who his grandmother was! How exciting, right? Not quite. I was showing
pictures of a recent gravesite visit to my mother, and she asked where my father's
grandmother's headstone was. I didn't know what she was talking about. It turns
out that the headstone at the foot of the bush that I assumed wasn't related
to us was (not a common name)! Now I have to find a way to get back there and
get the information from that headstone. The tip? Always get information on
all the headstones around your family site, even if they don't match. You just
never know!
Rick Seiden
Plant Spring Perennials in the Fall
I research my family graves year round. However, in the fall I return to each
newly discovered grave and plant several daffodils and crocus. This is my thank
you to them. I like the idea of knowing each grave had fresh flowers at least
once a year. The daffodils and crocus will multiply and spread for many years,
like we have done in our ancestor's eyes.
Doreen McKenna Powers
Funeral Homes Can Help With Cemetery Information
My mother and I recently went on a genealogy trip to a small town to find
some graves in local cemeteries. I found information on the Internet that indicated
which cemeteries contained the graves, but when we drove by the cemeteries listed,
the task of locating specific graves was daunting. Mom called the local funeral
home and asked for the names and phone numbers of the custodians of the cemeteries.
She contacted them and they were able to steer us in the right direction. In
fact, one gentleman was nice enough to meet us at the cemetery first thing the
next morning and lead us right to the graves we were looking for. As a child
of the city, I would never have thought of contacting the funeral home for such
information.
Kathie Amdahl
Photos Help Record Cemetery Information
Gathering and recording information from cemetery headstones was once a
chore I both hated and enjoyed. Keeping all the information orderly and easy
to find presented the greatest problem, but not any more. I now carry my 35mm
camera with me. The first photos I take are the cemetery entrance, the church
if there is one, and any other relevant distinguishing matter. Then, I take
close-up shots of every headstone that pertains to my research, plus a wide
angle to show the location of the stones. I make notes of any problems, finding
certain stones and printing the notes onto the back of the developed photograph.
Also, for the headstones that are almost impossible to read I copy onto notes
exactly every character I can make out and then place this information onto
the back of the photo. All these photos are placed into archival quality plastic
sleeves and placed into a ring binder. Within the binder, the cemeteries are
arranged alphabetically with the first page of each cemetery section beginning
with a page of directions to the cemetery, location within the county and state
and a state map with the general location noted. Another help I have discovered.
When searching for old cemeteries, call a funeral home within the county. My
experience has been that they give clear directions or direct me to someone
who can.
Carolyn Denny
Gift of Markers for Ancestors
I finally found the resting place of my great-grandparents and three of
their children. Great-grandmother had a stone, which no one else did. Great-grandfather
had died in the Civil War, so I ordered him a headstone. I found some other
relatives and added stones for the children for whom I had found birth and death
dates. It made me feel good to be able to do that. I wish more people would
try and put some kind of a marker out for their deceased relatives. I have several
other family members that need markers and I hope that some day before my time
here is gone, I can put markers on the other relatives that do not have stones.
Patricia Bowen McDevitt
From the Mouth of Babes
. . . I have been reading and using your newsletter for several months now.
You recently had an article about tombstones. This reminded me of a trip my
mother, daughter, and two grandchildren took several years ago to eastern Kentucky.
While visiting a cemetery trying to find information on one side of the family,
my grandson, who was about four-years-old, said he figured out what the cemetery
was all about. You write your name on a rock and then you die.
Hope this gives someone a smile,
Marsha Sanstra