Pet Cemetery Stone
In his article, After the Brick Wall Falls, George Morgan
mentions, "Brisco never had a grave marker. I ordered a gravestone
for him, and some of my first cousins have contributed to its cost."
We faced a similar problem for one of my ancestors. My great-grandfather died young, leaving a large--and young--family with no
money. He never had a gravestone. My mom and I wished to do
something, but the cost of gravestones was far more than we wanted to
spend. We ordered a gravestone for him from a pet supply catalog. It
is a beautiful granite headstone with his name and life dates
engraved quite professionally. At a cost of less than $100, the
marker is about one-third of the size of a traditional gravestone
(much like the smaller tombstones you might see for children or
infants). Except for the size, it is as beautiful and as
professionally done as a more traditional and more costly grave
marker.
He was buried in an old cemetery now closed to new burials so
there were no cemetery rules that we had to deal with. That might be
a concern for some cemeteries. Nonetheless, we thought this was an
excellent way to remember and honor one of our family without
breaking the family budget.
Debbie
Small Town Newspapers
I was born and raised in a small town with a local newspaper. There
are many articles in the old newspapers about when our family visited
other families or places. My two older brothers played basketball in
the 1930s and there are stories about those games and who made
baskets; my brothers were high scorers in many of the games. Later
when I was married and moved out of state, whenever we visited our
parents or friends, it was in the paper. My husband and all of the
local men or women were included with news of their time in the
service, where they trained, were stationed, what their training had
been in, when they came home on leave, etc. During the Second World
War many of the service people wrote to the editor and these letters
were also printed.
Articles of birthdays, engagements, weddings, births, and deaths are
there, plus "news" of world events, and of the people of small towns
from the area. School news of each grade, 1-12, is found in some of
the newspapers.
Many libraries will check for newspaper items about local people and
then they will mail or send e-mails of what they find. In my home
town library, the microfilm readers will also print articles as you
find them in the film. There is a fee of maybe a dime for each sheet
of paper you use.
Regards,
Carol Davis
Not Really "Uncle Bud"
I have a brother-in-law with whom I am very close. He knew very
little about his family that he could pass on to his children and
grandchildren so I undertook the job. I had a number of interviews
with him, some after he experienced a serious illness that hampered
his memory somewhat. Each time I interviewed him he talked a little
and said that was about all he could remember. As I entered
information in my database he had given me and started researching
it, I invariably had questions that I would return to him with.
Sometimes it resulted in more information and other times, it
reminded him of something else totally unrelated to the original
question, but proved very important.
One person came up in almost every interview I had with him. He was
very proud of his Uncle Bud Williamson whom he remembered being a
fireman for the city of Fort Smith, Arkansas. He even remembered his
two sons' names. I found the person in question with the names of the
sons that my brother-in-law remembered. However, he had not been a
fireman according to census records, but a laborer in some capacity
for the city. Also, exhaustive research could not turn up a link to
my brother-in-law's family. I finally asked him if everybody in the
area called him Uncle Bud and he said, "Oh yeah, everybody loved
him." That was what I needed to save many more hours of research. My
brother-in-law is in his eighties and in that era, many people were
called uncle or aunt, but were no kin whatsoever.
I thought this might save others some headaches and many late nights
of fruitless search. I'm proud to report that it took me eight months
of full-time work but I did get his book completed and he was very
happy with it.
Felecia Campbell
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