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Honoring Our Ancestors
Happy Birthday, Ben!
by Megan Smolenyak Smolenyak
Dear Son: I have ever had the pleasure in obtaining any little anecdotes of my ancestors. You may remember the inquiries I made among the remains of my relations when you were with me in England, and the journey I undertook for that purpose. Imagining it may be equally agreeable to you to know the circumstances of my life, many of which you are yet unacquainted with, and expecting the enjoyment of a week's uninterrupted leisure in my present country retirement, I sit down to write them for you.
Who Knew?
So opens The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin. I knew he was an inventor, a writer, a printer, a diplomat, a founding father, and so much more, but until I went to the Benjamin Franklin Tercentenary--the traveling exhibition to commemorate his 300th birthday--I didn't know he was also a genealogist. Of course, this fresh knowledge only caused my admiration for this colorful fellow to grow. If you live in or near Philadelphia, St. Louis, Houston, Denver, Atlanta, or Paris, do yourself a favor and plan on spending a little time this year celebrating his 300th birthday.
300 and Counting
Yes, his actual 300th has already passed (17 January 2006, in case you're curious). But one of the most remarkable aspects of the exhibition is how relevant Franklin and his achievements are even today. He seems, in many respects, a modern day man. In fact, a quote featured toward the end of the exhibit expresses Franklin's wish that he could have been born "two or three centuries hence." Every one of us is, in a sense, living his dream.
And although he was an exceptional individual and there are countless reasons why he deserves to live in our memories today, there's something reassuring about seeing any person from the 1700s so vividly brought to life. It reminds us of the tiny dose of immortality we provide each of our ancestors when we choose to seek out the details of their lives, and of the importance of leaving a trail ourselves. If someone as notable as Ben Franklin thought it necessary to document his life for his son, maybe we 21st century slackers should take a hint.
Franklin's Family Tree
Aside from all the obvious reasons you might want to attend this exhibit, the Tercentenary is a genealogist's delight. His family tree is heavily featured, and no, it's not whitewashed. Many know of his illegitimate son, and there's no attempt to mask this reality. Instead, the viewer gets to step into Franklin's family world, including his unusual arrangement living apart from his wife for many years (but his obvious affection for her in spite of their near-constant separation), his heartbreak over losing a child (how often do we try to tell ourselves that folks "back then" were somehow more accustomed to and therefore better equipped to deal with a loss of this enormity?), his wife's acceptance of his "outside child," and so forth.
Assorted descendants have contributed a variety of artifacts, so visitors get to see a personal collection that has never before been assembled. For instance, he wrote of a china bowl and silver spoon that his wife splurged on for him early in their marriage, and they are reunited for the first time in centuries in this display. Portraits of Franklin float through the exhibit, arranged in chronological order, so you see him age from young man to elder statesman. Chairs with a foot pedal that operates a fan above the head are scattered throughout so you can take a break and cool yourself off the same way Franklin did. He didn't invent the contraption, but was a big fan of it.
A Regular Guy
And you learn what Franklin was like as a person. Yes, he was larger than life, but you learn of the spat he has with John Adams when they were forced to share a bed at an inn. The source of the conflict? A debate about whether to leave the window open or not. Franklin believed strongly in the merits of fresh air, while Adams believed equally strongly in the merits of not freezing.
He was a natural-born diplomat, but that didn't stop him from proposing trade in rattlesnakes when he became rankled with Britain's policy of sending convicts to America. One of his guilty pleasures? Playing a game called Magic Squares--better known today as Sudoku. (Keep playing, Juliana--you're in good company!)
Walking in His Shoes
But my favorite part of the exhibit was an interactive game called Seeking Opportunity, based on Franklin's journey from Boston to Philadelphia. I confess that I probably tested the patience of quite a few youngsters who were waiting their turns to make the virtual trip out of Boston to build a better 18th century future for themselves, but I felt compelled to keep playing until I had tried out just about every combination of decisions.
What profession should I choose--cooper, chandler, or clockmaker? Should I take the ship to New York or the one to Newport? Should I pay four shillings to take the wagon to Philadelphia or should I save the money and walk? It's a good thing I was born when I was because my first foray into the world landed me in the Bahamas where I had to work on a plantation for eight years. On another try, I wound up dying in New York after getting robbed and tossed in jail. I eventually did make it to Philadelphia in one piece, but it took some doing.
If you have the chance, go take a fascinating walk in Franklin's footsteps. Learn about this remarkable man. Ponder what your own ancestors' lives might have been like. Immerse yourself in the past. And while you're at it, thank your lucky stars for having been born "two or three centuries hence!"
Megan Smolenyak Smolenyak, co-author (with Ann Turner) of Trace Your Roots with DNA: Using Genetic Tests to Explore Your Family Tree (as well as In Search of Our Ancestors,Honoring Our Ancestors and They Came to America), can be contacted through www.genetealogy.com and www.honoringourancestors.com.
Upcoming Events Where Megan Will Be Speaking:
- Charlotte County Genealogical Society
(March 11, 2006, Port Charlotte, FL)
- Treasure Coast Genealogical Society
(March 18, 2006, Ft. Pierce, FL)
- Roots & Branches Genealogical Society
(March 19, 2006, DeLand, FL)
- Camden County Historical Society
(March 23, 2006, New Jersey)
- Haddonfield Historical Society
(March 29, 2006, Tavistock, NJ)
- Burlington County Genealogy Club
(April 5, 2006, Westampton, NJ)
- Genealogy Federation of Long Island
(April 8, 2006, Stony Brook, NY)
- Jewish Genealogical Society of Greater Philadelphia
(April 10, 2006, Elkins Park, PA)
- Virginia Genealogical Society
(April 22, 2006, Location TBD)
- Rockland County Genealogical Society
(May 6, 2006, New City, New York)
- Roots in the Boot
(July 15, 2006, Pittsburgh, PA)
Click here for details and links to upcoming events.
Copyright 2006, MyFamily.com.
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